ok i found (yet another) 5v logic level 'mosfet driver' or level shifter
it is called 74HCT04
https://www.ti.com/lit/ds/symlink/sn74hct04.pdf
initially i'm upset about it being inverting, until i realize, it is just 6 sets of cmos transistor pairs
https://courseware.ee.calpoly.edu/~dbra ... sales.html
so non-inverting is just connecting the output to the input of another on the same chip.
another pure wire interfacing, no extra resistors no nothing
these are probably the 'most expensive' cmos transistors (ever) as compared to say stm32 with a million times that on the same chip

but for a 'level shifter', this is possibly 'cheap' as compared to common prices
https://www.aliexpress.com/wholesale?ca ... xt=74hct04
i've decided to get just this as my 'interface board' is a 5cmx7cm perfboard, dip14 is easy with that
https://www.aliexpress.com/wholesale?ca ... er+pcb+5*7
the others that is quite popular seemed to be
74HCT125
74HCT244
as they are straight out non inverting.
it is rather interesting that 74HCT244 are priced at a premium on aliexpress, they don't seem that much more complicated vs the simple chips like 74HCT04. it is probably due to the demand as most would go for the 'straight' (non-inverting) 74hct125, 74hct244 buffers than mess with inverting 74hct04 inverting buffers
https://www.aliexpress.com/wholesale?ca ... t=74hct244
conversely the more complicated, more elaborate 74HCT245
bi-directional so double the number of cmos transistor sets, with gate selectable direction is cheaper, so this is the mass used generic part
74HCT245
https://www.aliexpress.com/wholesale?ca ... t=74hct245
ok and i've got the whole list of 74HCTxx from nexperia attached